Your name
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First Name
Last Name
Ceremony date
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Ceremony address
Address 1
Address 2
City
State/Province
Zip/Postal Code
Country
Ceremony time to begin
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Email
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Tell me how you met and got together?
Don't leave out the detail! The more information you give me, the better your ceremony will be!
What was your first impression?
While you're at it, give me the second impression too!
When did you know you wanted to spend the rest of your life with this human?
Was there a specific moment? Or did it just creep up on you?
What do you do when you hang out together? Hobbies, favourite foods etc?
Favourite way to spend the weekend? Ideal date night?
When did you get engaged? What's the proposal story?
I'm a diehard romantic remember! Bonus points if I get teary!
When you have a fight - what is the most effective peace offering to give them to get them back on side?
What's the biggest thing that has happened to you as a couple?
Did you move overseas? Have a (fur)baby? Escape an erupting volcano together?!
What's your favourite thing about your partner?
What little quirks do you have together?
These are the nitty gritty every day quirks that you do, for instance, do you bump buts when you walk past each other, always say "you're the best person I know" when you go to sleep, quote a particular movie to each other, sing silly songs that you make up?
What are ALL your nicknames for each other?
Bonus points if you explain how they got them!
What TV shows or movies do you love, both as an individual, and to watch together?
Extra points if you include any quotes you often say to one another.
What does your partner do that gives you the shits?
Do they leave the cupboard doors open or never squeeze out the water in the sponge?
What ceremony elements do you want to include?
If you haven't looked at the 'creative ceremony ideas' page on the couple's portal, then open up a new tab and do this NOW!
Spot the reference
Alternate entrance
Acknowledge people missing
Acknowledge special people (parents, friends, etc.)
Community cheer of support
Call someone out
Ring warming
Reading
Love letter/wine box
Hand fasting
Nature mandala
Cards against humanity
Ninja vows
Secret handshake
Words from friends
Surprise witness
Pronouncement raffle
Cheers to you
Who will say their vows first?
Or maybe we rock off on the day!?
Ceremony music
How will your ceremony music be played, through my speaker, or by a live band/DJ?
You can play music through my Bose PA system, but please ask a guest to meet me half an hour before the ceremony to sync up their phone and I can chat through music cues with them. Just make sure the person has downloaded all of the songs.
Name of musician / Name of friend in charge of tunes
Procession song
The song played during any entrances
Signing songs
The songs played while we're singing the marriage paperwork. Pick two just in case it takes a little longer
Recession song
The song played as you head back down the aisle together
Tell me anything you DON'T want in your ceremony
No swearing? Not mentioning you met on tinder?
Family dynamics
Is there anything you think I should know about your family dynamics for the day?
How comfy are you with surprises?
What are the full names of your witnesses?
First, middle and last names. This is for the forms so I need their complete name. They must be over the age of 18 and understand English.
When will we sign the marriage paperwork?
During the ceremony (declared as married, share in first kiss, sign the marriage paperwork, introduce you as a married couple, head back down the aisle)
After the ceremony (declared as married, first kiss, head down aisle, sign paperwork after)
What's the colour scheme, and do you have a preference for what I wear?
Who's going to be in the rest of the dream team?
Please list who the other vendors will be (photographer, florist, hair and makeup, outfits, styling etc.)